Lifestyle Archives - It's Me Xy-Za https://www.xyzaspeaks.com/category/lifestyle/ Be Yourself! Live Life with No Limits! Mon, 22 Apr 2024 15:56:48 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 De-Stress on a Dime: Budget-Friendly Ways to Unwind After a Hectic Week https://www.xyzaspeaks.com/2024/04/23/__trashed/ https://www.xyzaspeaks.com/2024/04/23/__trashed/#respond Tue, 23 Apr 2024 08:00:00 +0000 https://www.xyzaspeaks.com/?p=590 The work week can leave you feeling like a tightly wound spring, ready to snap. But before you let the stress bubble over, take a deep breath and remind yourself: self-care doesn't require breaking the bank. Here are some budget-friendly ways to de-stress and recharge after a busy week:

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The work week can leave you feeling like a tightly wound spring, ready to snap. But before you let the stress bubble over, take a deep breath and remind yourself: that self-care doesn’t require breaking the bank. Here are some budget-friendly ways to de-stress and recharge after a busy week:

Embrace the Great Outdoors: Nature is a powerful stress reliever. Go for a walk or hike in a park, take a dip in a nearby lake or river (weather permitting!), or simply sit under a tree and soak in the fresh air. If you’re feeling adventurous, try geocaching (eclick nyo nlang yan para madali) or stargazing for a unique outdoor experience. We used to have a Pokemon game before I don’t know if people still play it, but it was a good reason to be outside then, hehe.

Channel Your Inner Zen: Mindfulness practices like meditation and yoga are proven stress-busters. There are plenty of free guided meditations and yoga tutorials available online, or check your local community center for affordable classes. Even 10 minutes of mindful breathing can work wonders.

Get Creative (Without the Cost): Unleash your inner artist with free or low-cost activities. Sketch in a park, write in a journal or try your hand at a new craft like origami or calligraphy. You can even gather free materials like nature finds or recycled items to create unique collages or sculptures.

Connect with Community: Social interaction is a powerful de-stressor. Meet up with friends for a potluck dinner at someone’s house, join a free book club or board game night at the library, or volunteer your time to a local cause. Surrounding yourself with positive and supportive people can do wonders for your well-being.

Digital Detox Delight: Unplugging can be the ultimate stress reliever in our constantly connected world. Turn off your phone notifications, put your laptop away, and savor some screen-free time. Read a book, listen to calming music, or enjoy the quiet.

Remember, the little things matter: Take a long, warm bath with Epsom salts (char! kung may bathtub ka go!), bake a batch of cookies, or indulge in a home spa treatment with DIY face masks and cucumber eye slices. These small acts of self-care can add up to a big boost in your mood and stress levels.

By incorporating these budget-friendly tips into your routine, you can find moments of calm and rejuvenation after even the most challenging work week. Remember, self-care doesn’t have to be expensive – it’s about finding what works for you and prioritizing your well-being. So take a deep breath, let go of the stress, and embrace a more relaxed and mindful you.


My friends know when I’m stressed. I blog! Lol so still being productive. I’m putting this up to remind myself that I also should try what I’m suggesting to destress. Life is full of surprises and surprises could either be amazing or awful.

May we all find the best way to unwind! Let’s live life with no worries! Have an amazing week everyone!

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Where Do People in Their 40s Hang Out? It’s Not Just Bars and Clubs Anymore https://www.xyzaspeaks.com/2024/03/02/where-do-people-in-their-40s-hang-out-its-not-just-bars-and-clubs-anymore/ https://www.xyzaspeaks.com/2024/03/02/where-do-people-in-their-40s-hang-out-its-not-just-bars-and-clubs-anymore/#respond Sat, 02 Mar 2024 04:11:52 +0000 https://www.xyzaspeaks.com/?p=588 People in their 40s are a different breed than they were in their 20s. They're more settled in their careers, they have families, and they have different priorities. So, where do they go to hang out when they want to relax and have some fun?

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People in their 40s are a different breed than they were in their 20s. They’re more settled in their careers, they have families (not me though ,lol), and they have different priorities. So, where do they go to hang out when they want to relax and have some fun?

The answer is, it depends. There is no one-size-fits-all answer to this question, as people’s interests and preferences vary greatly. However, there are some general trends that can be observed.

Popular Hangouts for People in Their 40s

  • Breweries and Wineries: Many people in their 40s enjoy craft beer and wine. Breweries and wineries are often seen as more sophisticated and relaxed than bars and clubs, making them a popular choice for this age group.
  • Live Music Venues: People in their 40s often grew up listening to live music, and they still enjoy it today. Live music venues offer a great way to socialize and enjoy some good music.
  • Art Galleries and Museums: People in their 40s are often more interested in culture than they were in their 20s. Art galleries and museums offer a great way to learn about something new and appreciate art.
  • Coffee Shops: Coffee shops are a great place to relax, chat with friends, or get some work done. They’re also a popular spot for people in their 40s to meet up for business meetings or casual dates. group of friends in their 40s enjoying coffee and conversation at a local coffee shop
  • Outdoor Activities: Many people in their 40s enjoy spending time outdoors. Hiking, biking, and camping are all popular activities for this age group.

Why People in Their 40s Love These Places

There are several reasons why people in their 40s enjoy hanging out at these places.

  • They offer a relaxed and sophisticated atmosphere. People in their 40s are often looking for places to relax and unwind. Breweries, wineries, live music venues, art galleries, and coffee shops all offer a more relaxed and sophisticated atmosphere than bars and clubs. They also don’t flock in the recently opened shops, they prefer shops with not so many people but has good coffee and food. They have this level of likeness that they are not willing to compromise to what is famous.
  • They provide opportunities to socialize and meet new people. People in their 40s still enjoy socializing and meeting new people. These places offer opportunities to do both in a relaxed and comfortable setting.
  • They cater to their interests. People in their 40s often have more developed interests than they did in their 20s. These places cater to a wide range of interests, so people in their 40s are sure to find something they enjoy.
  • They offer a chance to learn and grow. People in their 40s are often still looking to learn and grow. Art galleries, museums, and outdoor activities all offer opportunities to learn about new things and experience new things.

There is no one-size-fits-all answer to the question of where people in their 40s hang out. However, the places listed above are all popular choices for this age group. They offer a relaxed and sophisticated atmosphere, opportunities to socialize and meet new people, and cater to a wide range of interests. So, if you’re in your 40s and looking for a new place to hang out, check out one of these places. You might just find your new favorite spot.

I hope this blog post has been helpful. Please let me know if you have any questions. And I’m turning 40 this year by the way. hehehe so yeah, hello there!

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It’s Never Too Late: Investing in Yourself at 40 https://www.xyzaspeaks.com/2023/12/27/its-never-too-late-investing-in-yourself-at-40/ https://www.xyzaspeaks.com/2023/12/27/its-never-too-late-investing-in-yourself-at-40/#respond Wed, 27 Dec 2023 09:16:56 +0000 https://www.xyzaspeaks.com/?p=533 Here's to investing at 40 years old.

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Hey there, fabulous ladies! Let’s talk about a question that might have crossed your mind: “I’m 40 – is it too late to start investing in myself?” The answer? Absolutely not! In fact, it’s the perfect time to embrace this journey of self-investment and self-love.

Here are seven reasons why:

  • Wisdom and Experience: At 40, you bring a treasure trove of wisdom and experience. Every challenge you’ve faced and triumph you’ve celebrated has shaped you into the resilient, capable woman you are today.
  • Financial Empowerment: Investing in yourself financially at this age can yield incredible returns. Whether it’s saving for retirement, exploring new career avenues, or diving into investments, the financial world is yours to conquer.
  • Self-Discovery: This is a prime time for self-discovery. You’ve honed your skills, but now is the moment to explore passions you might have set aside. Take that art class, start writing, or travel to a place that ignites your soul.
  • Health and Wellness: Prioritize your well-being. Investing in your health, both physical and mental, sets the stage for a vibrant, fulfilling life ahead. Exercise, mindfulness, and self-care routines are powerful investments.
  • Career Reinvention: Feeling unfulfilled in your career? It’s never too late to pivot. Consider further education, entrepreneurship, or pursuing a new career path. Your experience is an asset waiting to be unleashed.
  • Community and Connection: Invest in relationships. Surround yourself with positive influences, mentors, and a supportive community. Networking at this stage can open doors you never knew existed.
  • Self-Love: Lastly, and most importantly, invest in self-love. Celebrate your strengths, embrace your flaws, and know that your journey is uniquely yours. Treat yourself with kindness and compassion.

Ladies, you’ve dedicated years to enriching the lives of others through your work and commitment. Now, it’s time to turn that dedication inward and invest in yourself. Embrace this milestone with open arms and watch how the investment in yourself pays the best dividends.

Here’s to thriving at 40 and beyond, loving ourselves, and embracing the journey ahead!

Cheers,

Xyza

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